Unmarried & Lonely
28 F unmarried. I understand that love and death comes at its own time. But how to overcome the daily stress caused due to delayed marriage.Its always being on my mind and scares the shit out of me to settle for a non suitable match if i age too much.
I came across some girls who are 35, and still searching. By the age of 32 they all declare to their parents that they just don’t want to marry. But then parents pressurise them and try to convince them, so they give it a try again, on their parents’ chosen choices, but they have very high expectations, which never gets found, so they keep trying and trying…
Basically, the more you age, the more your requirements start becoming more and more strict. Also, with maturity you keep adding more to the requirements, so all that eventually works against the marriage chances.
In many cases, I observed that even though girls earn enough, they expect the guy to be provider, and great, well financed provider, in exactly the way they want. Their thinking is, they may lose job when they have kid, but that should not lower their living standards at all. Logically it looks sound too, to some extent, but well, guess what, practically it doesn’t work. I mean life has ups and downs, you can’t try to guarantee your future, you can’t control your future, so it seems vain to try to control future so much.
It's actually proven fact
With age it's very difficult to change as well so
Getting married early is welcoming
There is nothing called a suitable or non suitable match, just find the right person who understands & respects you , maybe he is earning less or not that much attractive by look.
If the character of men is good then it will make your life happy.
Why don't you marry her mere bhai?
You will have everything 🐈
Take care 🐈
Indian society scares people so much into getting married. Who cares dude. If it's meant to happen you'll get married when you find the right person.
Until then just enjoy your life, you get to do what you want when you want.
We keep having this idea that we will be happy once xyz happens. 10th boards, jee, placement, marriage, kids, die.
There's no blueprint to be happy. If you're lonely go out and make friends. Join activities and hobby clubs.
So what if marriage is "late". There's nothing magic that happens after marriage that suddenly makes you happy.
Stop living your life goal to goal and just live it in the present.
Only people who are scared settle. People who are just enjoying life on their own terms end up finding the right one for them... Because they're not settling out of lonliness
Lonely AF, AF.
Jb hona hoga ho jaayega. Don't be stressed.
i got married to wrong person and my life is fucked , used to have thoughts like this
Don’t get married to wrong person ever , i would accept the misery of living alone whole life than living with wrong person
Shadi kar ke kaun sa Olympics ka medal mil jana hai behan, chill maro, enjoy kro friends ke sath ye best phase hai life ka. Shadi k bad jhand life ho jani hai. Kentrol kare janab
Read what you wrote once again "28F unmarried, stress of delayed marriage and non compatible match"
Apart from 28F, rest all things are just hypothetical!
Take a deep breath, you are just overthinking and stressing out!
Grab some sweets, and if you want to get married, just find a compatible match for yourself!
How to find:
- Write down what qualities you want in your husband on paper.
- Now once you wrote, just remove the qualities that tend to change with time.
eg: Money- today he might earn 10cr tomorrow it might be zero! - Look at the things that you striked out and add the qualities that are required to achieve.. eg: Lets say you removed, money, now to earn money you want someone to atleast have a job or business!
Likewise you have a list, then just find someone around you with those qualities and approach him, you will find your partner!
But to do so, act, don't make hypothetical situation and stress out.
Being that said just enjoy your weekend!
Don't lose hope, u will find your partner one day!! All d best 🙂
