I am a 24M. I understand the industry I am in, I need to put in efforts daily and study after my job.
Include gym and some work escalations, there is no time left. Wake up, gym or study, eat, office, eat, study or gym, sleep.
This went on 6 months, and tbh I had multiple mental breakdowns lol.
I started socialising, through my hobbies of sketching, photography, and poems. Unfortunately after some meets, people either quit talking, or stopped attending meets. Couldn't find anyone who actually wanted to be a friend.
Tried dating too, but, that didn't worked either. I never got matches, and never made enough female friends to help me with that tbh, because I never talked with them with the intention they will get me a partner 😅.
All of my team members are married, and work interaction is average average. Everyone wants to keep interaction till office only.
I don't know what's wrong with me, sigh.. 😮💨
Self love isn't working and finding new people too.
We are on same page dude. Lets wait for responses from some Dating Gurus here on Grapevine 😂
Haha
Are sir aap matrimony par try karo
And what MS guys doing here lol
I guess the rest of us are cooked then
Lol MS guys also study and go to gym bruh. Also do dating but dating apps pr commitment nhi h 🤦🏻♂️
We r on the same page. Your right after an age I too I'm not interested in socialising. I'm in my forties and have a lot of baggage in life. Prefer to keep office interactions to a minimum. Take it from me, Self love always works whether anything else does or not!
Are bhai, we are social animals, I don't wanna ring the bell of self love till death
Bhai, jinke matches aa rahe hain unka bhi kuch nahi ho raha 😂
I’ve tried matrimony and dating apps, talked to so many people, and still got rejected over caste, kundli, or dietary preferences.
At this point, I’ve given up on marriage. I’m 28M and honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever get married.
Bonus tip: if you actually want to date a good woman, try setting your location to the Philippines. I’m currently in a relationship with a Filipina — she’s so pretty and genuinely caring. I’ve never felt this kind of worth in any of my past relationships with Indian girls. (PS: I’m not a dating guru, but I’ve been in around 6–7 relationships 😅)
Philipino GF from Facebook era ?
Are you using any app for talking to people with the same interest?
Get married 😂
Lo karlo baat
Sigh..
Here I always got a no and you are suggesting marriage.
Kya advice de rahe ho bhai aap 😭
relatable bro at 25 even my bro's (school/clg friends) are also changing drastically, it feels very bad over weekend.... friends with whom u thought.... it'll stay forever.... and for female interactions I gave up.... only arrange marriage is there, that also I'm afraid of due to recent events.... waiting for more tips here
Why gave up on female interaction bro? You won't get any further unless you try....
Fuck socialism..oops I meant socializing....Buy a PS5 and play GTA 6 😎😎😎
Damn yes brother. Love that there’s few gamers here
That's the story of almost everyone nowadays. I read this post and felt like hey that's me
Hey me
Not me so not everyone
im 28, dont have any close male friends but plenty female friends and hobbies sooo... it works out.
Sahi hai
I don't have any female friends
i hope you bump in some cuties nearby
Being alone is part of adulting. It seems uncomfortable at first but once you’re 27-28 - you’d really cherish having a drama free life. And honestly- once you get used to being on your own - you unlock a whole new level of life. So many people go through their entire life without ever learning to be on their own.
I understand the need of socialising - try some stranger meetups or run clubs or such wventa happening in your city.
I’ve attended these and my honest review is that yes you meet people - everyone seems amazing at first but after a while you get tired and people always disappoint. It’s a vicious cycle until you learn to be on your own and get tired of temporary people and fleeting memories.
ESPECIALLY IF YOU’RE SOMEONE GENUINE WITH PURE INTENTIONS- It’s very hard to find like minded folks.
This is an issue here that I acknowledge as well.If you dont have a strong concrete group which had its origins in either school or college, then you are in for a run here.People dont socialise much after college and dating here is tough.People dont have clarity in their minds.
In fact, people have clarity, just because some of us, were too focused on careers or basically failed to get a good friend circle or even date, life isn't gonna change unless the figures change drastically. The other people have good circles and a healthy social life, and such trust doesn't develop at a later age.
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