WobblyBanana

Student

Should I get Married in future?

Good morning seniors I am a male engg student currently in final year I have never been in a relationship and haven't talked to girls from the past 6 years for which I can remember correctly. In my life till now I have approached two, which got declined citing religion, caste as barriers etc

I am a Jatt Sikh, and I am ugly and I accept that

Although it's foolish to think of that much ahead future, although I accepted that these things aren't for me and I will spend the rest of my life in tech and drawing stuff and gym and will explore other hobbies on the go

But still my mind constantly ponders me I will be lonely for the path ahead, and dual thoughts of even though I did get married, I will get cheated upon, getting scared of fake cases and will not find a vir*in

Plus I also get scared of even talking to women Thinking the other gender has power to do what they want since laws are completely on their side

These thoughts are pondering constantly over my head for the past 6 months Pls help

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SillyDonut

TCS18mo

I lost u at v*gin.

Grow up dude. Drop this thought 1st.

In world of tinder, bumble and Aisle, 99% chances that M can be a V but not F. Still there are few girls whom I know are like that...but peer pressure dude... everyone wants to experiment and now there is a new buzzword amongst genz, alpha n millennials i.e. sxe competency.

Every right swipe of a gal is match but not urs that's how skewed these dating apps r.

Coming to ur question, yes u should get married. Coz u r in late 20s, u r full of energy and can spend time in gym travel and what not but after 10y u will feel lonely at 40.

Then options will be negligible as well.

So, find a good gal ( ain't necessarily V and get married)

On a lighter note If indian gals ain't giving u chance bruh go to Canada or usa, kya pta lottery lag jaye.

Personal Opinion - In this Materialistic world where everything is available on app...like food, grocery, entertainment, we have started treating humans as an object and want features in those. It doesn't work like that. Try to find inner beauty instead of exterior. Wrinkles will be there in 10y but nature will be constant. Now think, what u wanna kiss 😘

Ok...bye!

WobblyBanana

Student18mo

Thanks for your comment sir,

I understood your POV that one should get married But approaching girls, isn't that a risk, I mean they can falsely accuse me, once I start working, dating is prohibited among colleagues.

In that case only arrange will prevail

Is that your ref?

SillyDonut

TCS18mo

I never dated colleague...period.

Try somewhere else or get on matrimonial apps and look for jatt Sikh with hobbies like u.

Sync is important else why waste ur time and hormones on someone who is gonna ditch I coz of ur religion or caste.

Listen 295 and look within ur community.

Stay confident and honest...that's they key. Nobody is gonna ask about ur V or judge based on that, vise versa is also true

SwirlyTaco

Stealth18mo

Outsource search activity to parents.

Focus on your career and make yourself to be a sociable, personable individual capable of loving & giving.

WobblyBanana

Student18mo

This appears to be the wise choice Thanks for your comment sir

BouncyMarshmallow

Accenture18mo

Placement pey dhyan do, 20 lakh per annum ki job lag gayi to aikse badh kar ek chikni ladkiyonnke rishtey ayenge chappar phhadh key, sunney mey cheap lagta hey but reality hey paaji

WobblyBanana

Student18mo

Kaam jari hai sir Bus bhagwan k meher rahe To time par lag jaygi

And arrange marriage ka system ese h chalta hai I agree

Par question abhi bhi wahi hai Is it even ok to go down this road Fake cases False harassment

PTA nhi jab bhi es topic k bare Mai thoughts aate hai Dimaag k L lag Jate hai

What is right actually I can never ever come to the conclusion

SillyJellybean

Stealth18mo

Don't need to think about marriage until you turn 28-30. Just work on yourself and enjoy life.

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