How do you interact with girls?
I mean there is an unkempt barrier in social places. You can't go and strike convos in most places. So guys who don't get matches on dating apps or are not in school and college. How would you date? I mean even befriending seems a task cuz you have to suddenly strike random convos which requires earth shattering confidence tbh. Plus to carry that convo to something meaningful is another hassle, how do you manage to meet and interact girls then?
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It's tough, you're right. The "cold approach" feels awkward because it often is. The key is to find places where socializing is the main point. Think clubs for hobbies you enjoy, volunteer groups, or even recreational sports leagues. This gives you a natural, low-pressure way to meet people who already share an interest with you, making conversations much easier to start. Also remember to be respectful 😊
This^ find communities with interactions and start with friendship first. Everyone needs practice with getting to know the other gender and how to talk to them. Practice builds confidence.
Brother tbh these places are again for good looking men, where do sub par guys go?
Female friends as wing women. Let them approach the girl, strike up a conversation, make her comfortable and let her meet you as a part of the group first. Takes the awkwardness away. For most women the biggest fear is feeling like they're being preyed on by some creep when they're just out to have fun. But if your female friends talk to her first and make the introduction, it tells her that you already have females who are comfortable around you, so takes that creepy feeling away. That gives you a chance to get past the social barrier and talk. After that how you carry the conversation is up to you. Hope that helps :)
I don't have female friends even, never had any
Idk i remember approaching a girl very randomly when i was new in blr. Like we used to stay in same pg. Random morning on terrace i just said hi and idk conversation started and went to work and stuffs. She's still a friend.
To answer your question, just don't go with the intention to date her and love her, in that case you are always gonna put that person on a higher pedestal and you won't be yourself. Just treat them like other humans and understand they have flaws as well. You can be honest as well like idk what to talk about etc etc.
There's no direct answer to how as people are complex and it will depend from person to person and situation to situation. But overall if you have good intentions and you are a nice person it would work.
I still can't figure out how people manage to get all these "approach strategies" to work. Feels like the only real organic opportunity was during study years 🥲
go with the flow dont try just be yourself
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Society demonizes the other gender until you are legal enough to make your own decisions (18 or older) and then all of a sudden you are forced (by society and emotional blackmail by family) to marry and live with the other gender for the rest of your life - that's the reason why we have many adults so confused about the other gender because other than the biological aspect, there is little behavioural knowledge about the other gender. In a nutshell, it's society that sets these rules - it's up to you to either follow them and look good to everyone or do as your instincts direct you but always take responsibility for your actions and be respectful at all times. Interacting with the other gender is all about making the first contact - it has to be smooth and spontaneous. Being introduced by a friend has enough cushion for the other person to start building trust right away, but it may not always work.. be flexible to anything that may happen at the spur-of-the-moment, that way it will look like you are a natural and not trying too hard. These are my two cents on interacting with the other gender, hope it helps!