Wherever I go no matter the platform us Indian boys/men are crying for GFs and it is making me go crazy on how stupid this entire situation has gotten. I understand that us men are more lonely than ever but for the sake of God STOP crying for a gf and more importantly please stop trying to impress any random ass girl/women on the street by wearing something that you would not wear usually or drinking something that you would not like to drink or acting like someone whom you are not.
Look, the point I am trying to make is just treat girls/women as normal human being instead of putting them up on some kind of pedestal.
Just as there are a great deal of guys that you don't admire all that much or don't give a fuck about, similarly there are girls who are equally stupid and doesn't deserve your attention or efforts.
Please look out for yourself, make really good friends be it a guy or a girl, form genuine connections and keep on getting better not because you want to impress someone but because that is the right thing to do.
All I am saying is put your well being on the pedestal and enjoy life. Girls are awesome but so as we are and I just want us boys/men to realise that getting a gf is not as important as this current culture has made it to be.
Rant over I just wanted to let this thing out of my system. Take care 💗
i know you have posted this looking at my lost seeking inputs to get a girlfriend , just for your information I'm not as desperate as you might think I'm, anyway I'm rational enough to understand your point and of course I'm building my future. Just thought about trying out something which is Missing in my life because after crossing 50 years or 70 i should not regret that i didn't look for my soulmate just like I did in my engineering times
another thing i have this quote in my mind "if you don't try you will never know"
everyone has their own interests Better don't be harsh.
Hey, sorry if I came in as harsh or offensive and I seriously haven't looked at your post yet, so this wasn't targeting you and please feel free to do whatever you want to do. Also I wrote this post after seeing multiple posts on Blind and reddit regarding the same matter.
PS : My personal experience tells me if you are looking for someone then the internet is not possibly the best place to look for instead meet people in real life.
You are absolutely correct 💯
Tbh, today's majority of Indian teenagers needs to understand this as well as girls.
Someone had to say this. Desperation leads to repulsion. Be yourself
Umm I beg to differ, but at times loneliness hits hard man, I mean I agree with all what you said but yeah it's what it is.
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