Worst daughter
I am the worst daughter to my mom , i have never said hurtful things to her until and unless it was time for arrange marriage set up , we getting in so many arguments on preferences in arrange marriage and during these heated arguments i have said hurtful things to her on how she do what she wants to do , i know she wants good for me but somewhere i am disappointed by my life and my inability to find anyone for myself and sometimes this frustration comes in our arguments. These arguments brings out the worst side of me.
I am no where defending myself ,my heart bleed when she cries and i am left with nothing but regret
Now there is this person even though we do not have chemistry and i am not physically attracted to him , i think we might develop a bond in coming time and will respect each other because i see no option to come out of my current situation. He is a nice person but not the kind of person i am looking for but lets see what happens.
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don't k*ll him after marriage, just let him know directly you don't want to be with him
Bro, If she can hurt her mother, do you think she will care about anyone else🙂
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If u think every woman is a killer by these highlighted cases just because she is struggling to find a genuine partner for herself and for her choice to live a peaceful life , i suggest you both marry a man only it will save yours and the girl's life as well ,because it's clear u are mentally retarded to think beyond and give a good relationship to ur partners.
Hey! I am a daughter, mother and got married in an arrange marriage setup. So I may qualify to tell you few things.
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Apologise to your mom and she will melt like a butter. Trust me!
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Tell her what you think about the guy your mom wants you to marry. Be honest to tell her what you are looking for.
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Meet this guy few times before coming to a conclusion, he might change your perspective.
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Try to ask some appropriate questions to the guy so that you. A judge his character better.
Ultimately in my opinion physical looks are temporary. Trust me, not just him but you will also change over time. I know arrange marriage is scary but so do love marriage.
All the best in your journey.
She is egoist, she can't do that. If she believes that she made mistake, she would already have ask for forgiveness from her mom.
She is on anonymous social media to get validation of her behaviour.
Just remember, this is not US/Europe where people will encourage you for such things. She is working, do i assume she have better decision taking capabilities.
You have to open about how you feel about the prospect with your parents as well as the prospect himself. It will better for both families if you just casually tell your parents how you feel about him and if you are in contact with the guy, just express yourself to him. If he is actually nice, he would understand and get it all cancelled. After that move on to next prospect till you find what you are looking for.
Generally, if appearence is what you prioritize, you might be very disappointed in the end. Also curious as to if you guys have actually spent some time together, go to movies, outing, bowling or whatever your interests are, know the expectations of the other person, thats very important.
You are not wrong either from what I have read. Mothers can sometimes be overprotective and overshadow their own decisions onto daughters. It's OK to rebel sometimes, express yourself. Hope ypu find the guy!!
Also, just curious as to what kind of person you are looking for and how did you conclude that he is not the kind of person to fit in that bracket?
Taking stand for yourself is not selfish and doesn't make you a bad daughter, you have the right to choose your life partner, being selfish isn't any bad here. @Odinoch , take decision wisely, all the best!.
@Odinoch Hey, I just want to say it takes a lot of strength to admit something like this. You are not a bad daughter. You aree just a girl probably in mid or late 20s, caught between love for your mom and love for your own freedom. That tug-of-war can bring out sides of us we don’t like, but it doesn’t define who you are. What matters is the honesty in your reflection and the heart behind your words. I hope you give yourself the same grace you’re learning to give others. You deserve that and more. 💛
You are really kind brother ☺️
First of all ...if you are not sure don't rush for it ..it might not just harm you ...but it can also harm the entire family and boy ...and it's not a competition that you should find somebody at a certain age .. And you will live with the person for lifetime not your mom ..look for the qualities what you seek and don't settle for something you think might change later
It is not okay to say hurtful things to your mother in any world.. You have been a terrible person but since you have realised it now.. You have the chance to be better most people don't even realise it till its too late.. Start giving them the love that they truly deserve and have a conscience in mind how will they feel before taking any stupid and rash decisions.. Its never too late to be what you might have been❤️
Best of luck to you 🤞
Tell your mom why you don't like the guy , have an honest conversation. It might be awkward but it's high time you both clear it out. Conversation is the key
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