Who generally pays on the first date?
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Guys, you all earn well pls stop this trend of not paying on first dates or asking to split with the girl. If the girl is adamant on splitting and won't listen to you then sure go ahead and agree to split, but please pay the bill on the first dates
... why?
You all are seriously asking 'Why?'
I am against the extreme version of feminism & misandry too but y'all need to understand that most of these girls have come from conservative families and cities/states where going to a grocery store alone and not having a dupatta itself is considered a crime. Girls take a huge risk & it takes guts to step out of their comfort zone and meet a stranger. They share their live locations with their friends to be safe. And on top of all of this y'all are expecting them to pay for a fking meal? lol are y'all serious. I'm sorry but it's not at all masculine to ask a girl to pay for her share that too when you're taking the lead and trying to get to know her.
if she is a feminist, she has to.
In normal cases, who ever is the "reacher", should pay.
How would one know if she is a feminist? If she is, do you wait for her to pay or do you ask her?
Shame on people like this You should split the bill or whatever way you both want to do Dating is not transactional Just because someone is feminist they don't need to prove themselves by paying the full bill
I just dated twice in my entire life... sensed nothing is going to work out... And ordered lots of chicken. Spoke some rubbish related to some anime I was watching.. Ate 90% of my food and went out to have a call and never came back. Pay if its going to work out.. or run away. Wonder whatever luck was on me during that time to even hit 2 matches. Never tried that again or even got one... I've been living in my room safe and sound since then playing rts.
This type of behaviour is exactly the result guys should pay on first date. Mostly girls come across this only, so they are taking a risk by coming out with you.
Noticed splitting the bill is not among the options?
Should have added that option as well. I am not experienced 😇.
/Posting this after seeing the results.
Boys hear me out : If its going to be just one and the only date, you'll know it towards the end. Pay and move on! You wont feel bad about it.
If all goes great, you'll have a second date and she'll herself suggest to split.
If she doesn't say this and you still want to date further, meet at a gurudwara/temple please where they serve langar.
And pray to god to give you both capability to take good decisions.
If splitting would have been the option that would have been voted the most
The guy should pay on the first date. Split on every subsequent date
Both
Add an option - Go Dutch Selecting option - Girl 😝