ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

What to do when you are left alone in life ?

Wanted to get a direction how to spend your days specially on weekends when you are left alone with no one around . I know people will come out here saying Per-sue a hobby this that, but that inner feeling doesn’t go away with that

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FloatingTaco
FloatingTaco

It's better to be alone than with a wrong person. So you can celebrate this fact.

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Its the result of being with a wrong person that am alone today

FloatingTaco
FloatingTaco

Then it's all for good. Take this time to reflect on your life. Don't rush into something that you'll regret later.

ZoomyUnicorn
ZoomyUnicorn

They say an idle mind is the devil's workshop. If you don't keep yourself engaged, you will get these "inner feelings" of self pity or uselessness and soon become depressed.

That being said, it is up to you, how you decide to keep yourself engaged. You need to find where your passion lies, some hobbies (movies, tv series, drawing, singing, dancing etc), some self development (gym, sports, exercise, cycling, etc ).

If you are into tech, try to upskill, if non-tech learn a language. Travelling is very soothing to the soul.

Don't give into destructive options. Life is a beautiful gift, and you have much more to live and give. Find a passion, find motivation, help people out.

PS: Going through a divorce from my love-married wife, and lost my last parent, my mother a couple months back. I was at your place, staying alone for about an year, until I learnt to LIVE WITH MYSELF.

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Thanks for the motivation buddy

ZoomyUnicorn
ZoomyUnicorn

Also keep yourself active, don't become lazy over weekends where you stay just in bed. Overtime, it robs you of your active lifestyle, and you soon become unhealthy.

Go explore nearby places, tidy up your home, repair stuffs, do gardening if possible.

TwirlyTaco
TwirlyTaco

You start your day with a peg of jagermister Then you do your morning routine then go for a walk
Get a bowl of fresh fruits and arrange some good vodka i personally prefer magic moments have tried others but this feels good

Then for lunch you eat whatever you want with a diet coke and miniature of jager

After that you take an afternoon nap of 4-5hrs and when you wakeup contact a good dealer who can supply you with the best quality weed I personally prefer OG I buy it every once a week or twice depending on my week

After that have another peg of jager and get back to sleep

You can do all this if you are left with time outside your working hours.

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Full sharabi vibes

FloatingJellybean
FloatingJellybean

Liver left the chat

MagicalMarshmallow
MagicalMarshmallow

Well, been on same boat since last year. Managed to go out to movies, restaurants alone and enjoyed self company. and when the mood is off .just laying on bed and scrolling social media.
I am planning to go on a solo trip too

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Never went out on a movie alone

JazzyPancake
JazzyPancake

Buy a car

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

How will that help

JazzyPancake
JazzyPancake

Long drive p chl p chl

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

@AppleManiac I won't recommend you an old dialogue of doing yoga, going to the gym...etc. But I will say find some limited true friends with whom you can spend a good time, go out, share your thoughts and have some fun.. your life is done. But the only thing is to select the friends wisely. Not everyone is a true friend, some of them have clever minds and use for time pass os some benefits

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Finding someone genuine is the most difficult thing

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

@AppleManiac you may learn to read ppl's minds with their words, intention and the way of speaking. Disconnect immediately once you find their motives

JazzyRaccoon
JazzyRaccoon

Help other lonely people

FloatingJellybean
FloatingJellybean

How?

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

I am also experiencing same feeling nowadays, weekends are mostly lonely

ZestyBiscuit
ZestyBiscuit

It's ok dude we are all in the same boat

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

I dont think so

SparklyDonut
SparklyDonut

Join Robinhood army. Thank me later

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Whats that

PrancingPenguin
PrancingPenguin

Try blue color jobs or hard skills job

ZoomyCoconut
ZoomyCoconut

Already doing one

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