Update on the Divorce post

Bro are you not worried about the alimony you might have to give?

I can guarantee you are making a big mistake. There are always two sides of the story Read your previous post and saw all kinds on horrible suggestions What if your wife who was criticising your parents was actually right ? Think about it. You parents may be harassing her behind your back.
Girls generally do not complaint and fuss about something so much unless it is actually happening
If your wife was actually in her mother’s control she would have not complained about your parents to you but directly to her mother and conspired against you. I do not understand how even you had kid with that lady for whom you have so much poison in your mind
After marriage your family should be no 1 and then your parents. You are just trying to run away from your responsibility. Leaving your wife and child behind. In this rage of anger you will justify you have taken the correct decision but later you will regret. And I assure you, your next marriage will also fail. You parents will make sure either the Daughter in law is obeying to them or else same cycle will happen so be ready to face it. If you can throw away your child for your mental peace I am not sure whether you will actually get it after divorce
Or unless seems like you just want to get over it and the wife alimony thing and just be over it. You seem to be in rush to get mental peace.

I don't know dude, I'm feeling sad that you have to go through this. Hope you make peace with yourself and your parents because I don't think there will be any peace from your wife and her family.

4th marriage getting converted to a divorce news I'm hearing about 3 in my direct contacts and this one here. I'm just, I don't know man peace be with you.

As a girl, I would try to fix problems with the person I love and will think 1000x times to make a divorce decision. And guess what people like us only are left alone. Qki rishta todna hamesha solution nahi hota. Save u r marriage bro at least for u r child. U can stay away , u can maintain distance not to make things ugly. But divorce is a very big decision. I really wonder sometimes how people casually get married and get divorced as well. U can communicate with her. If she is not understandable then leave it. But try to fix it. Give u r best.

Whatever keeps your mental peace intact buddy

You are just 29, you have a great chance ahead to get a compatible partner, do as early as possible

I m also in same phase but I m girl who s not expecting his useless money though he earns 2times more than me... I think choose yourself over everything else s very important and if we have peace in life we can archive everything

I never understood the divorces happening cuz of family involvement.
Never let anyone come in ur marriage...neither ur parents nor her parents. It's only a team of 2 person. All the decisions of career/finance/life should be taken together independently.
Sorry to be rude -worst thing is ppl getting realization that marriage can't work as soon as the child is born. I wish the baby gets a better life whenever he/she is

Good decision brother, I got married at age of 29 , after 3 years of marriage there was intense verbal dispute after which she called her brother and in my own house we had a fight, later they demanded 20 lacs and we had given them permanent alimony. We could fix financial things any time.

Stay strong buddy…

But what happened to the people out?? divorce within couple of years of marriage is pretty bad when both are educated… a friend of mine got divorced within a year of his marriage 27M at the time. The lame reason I heard so far from the girl” I don’t like the food of Hyderabad and the Inlaws insisted the groom to settle in there hometown” . Although the girls job is in same city of guy.