WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana
Student

Someone I know ended themselves, and it's getting difficult to recover from it

Let's call them Amit bhaiya.

26M, Amit bhaiya, a passionate artist, loved drawing, photography, his Sketches were awesome, he was heavily into studies and cracked a good job as a software engineer after graduating around 3 years ago.

He used to live just 2 blocks away from my home, we weren't friends, but yeah we did had some good convos whenever we get chance to meet eachother in functions or festivals.

Amit bhaiya around 3 months ago ended themselves. 1 year back he lost uncle and aunty to an accident. He was a single child.

He was such a strong and loving soul, everyone used to say, kitna badhiya banda hai.

A diary was found by the police and a deep discussion happened btw other members of the society of what exactly went wrong.

He always felt lonely, always had notes citing of wishing he had a partner. Such notes were quite written frequently in the daily diary.

The diary also had a lot of good Sketches, all of women, some of the women he mentioned were from work or gym or airport. Phrases like," saw a beautiful Flower today".

The diary in one note wrote that how much he tried to find a partner, but was always rejected, he tried to work on himself but for 4 years, no improvements, gym, social circles, dressing sense, sure enhanced the confidence, but no relationship. Also mentioning about the failed matches his parents got him.

The diary had quite depressing notes after his parents left. Although pushing to live, but shorter. Phrases like "It's getting tough, better to leave, lived enough" were common.

I never got to see the diary myself, I am only sharing stuff which I came to know from the discussion through someone else I know.

After the incident, his relatives were fighting about property and all, quite sad.

I am in the same field too, and my heart feels a lot burden, what actually could have helped him.

🙏

I am on the same line as him, pretty much the same hobbies too, I am average looking, he was a lot better looking than me, I don't have any female interaction either, although trying on building myslef up, but I am scared now.

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ZoomyNarwhal
ZoomyNarwhal

Looks dekh ke ladkiya pat rahi hoti toh na Chahal ko koi milta na elon musk ko. Himmat rakho, the only time I’m not shooting is when I’m aiming.

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana
Student3mo

Last line hit

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

The more impression u have of him the more you'll be pulled towards the same destiny as his.
Change your direction and hobbies and everything. And live happily solo 😃

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

I'm sorry to hear that someone felt ending their life was the only way to escape their trauma. While we may not be able to take away someone’s pain completely, we can be there to listen if we know they’re struggling. Sometimes, just having a chance to let it all out can bring a bit of relief.

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana
Student3mo

He felt like a better version of me, more like the son my parents always deserved.

I am scared now.

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

bro sad to hear this, it’s his inaction to approach them led to this

god pls forgive him for committing suicide and pls let him ascend z🙏🙏

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