Should i marry my girlfriend?
I met my gf through insta around mid of 2023. She was studying nursing from tier 3 college then. Everything was going well. It took off well. After her edu, she worked as a nurse for the 6mon but resigned due to shifts. Then gained some IT skills and worked as QA for a year with 20k monthly salary. Now she's going for an MBA and will be out by 2027. I on the other hand did b tech from tier 1 and am earning some more than 1.3L+ now. I was taking care of our expenses all along from the beginning. We both are the same age. Roughly I would've spent 2L+ We have been living together since 2024. She's yet to reveal our relationship with her parents. I already did. My parents are not accepting her full fledged due to the low cast and her weak financial background and being okay with it just for me. She's a good girl, cooks well, cares for me and thinks only about our love life. As i said she's not putting her career first. She's a slow learner but still not even investing enough time to learn new skills to get a good job. I'm thinking if i married her she would be a good housewife. My expectation: i see almost all my friends have good earning life partners at least 50k-1L pm. I feel anxious and jealous that they are already investing good amounts for their future and children. But here I'm still not able to start any investment or afford a car or trip. They're doing all this. I feel like I'm not living the best if I continue to be with her. Opinion: I want an opinion on whether to continue this relationship or end this and look for arranged marriage at this point as I am already 26 now. Looking forward to your responses if you come across or what would you do under such situations.Thanks.
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I think you should move out of this relationship, if you are jealous because of others.
You are not in love with her, you are with her because she is cooking, cares for you and (think about love life)
Let’s be practical, With time everything changes, in future, if the contribution is not from both the end, you will be frustrated and that is your expectation.
The girl deserves someone better
First just for peer pressure did you wanted to have a girl friend clearly there is no love involved. Second all my sympathy with your girl friend, she deserves a better partner and hopefully she finds one. Third till now she is all blindfolded.
It seems everyone here has the same thinking. She deserves someone better 😂 Bro, why're you comparing yourself with others? If you've found someone to love each other, isn't that the most important thing. What's the point of having money if you've girl but fight each other all the time? You could plan for kids and while saving (well this is just money management and it can be done by talking to each other). Though this is my personal opinion. You may think it otherwise.
Money will come and go.