Serious need of MONEY
In 12th grade and not single with science side managing everything is not easy idk first month I randomly decide to gift her something then it became a habit I have to give her gifts every month regardless of money I am giving her all and now I am spending more time with her and sometimes I really want more money appx I spend 1k on her every month and that too is possible only because of my one outing I save money by not eating in cafes or restaurants and tha saved money I spend with her on eating and gifting her idk why but stopping her from making payments feels nice but in this age idk this is right or not but just doesn't feel nice that she is paying for something I really don't care about the financial background but girls can really spend without thinking as no one stops them but asking money from parents as a boy is so difficult and if the expense keeps on increasing idk how will I manage earning 1-2k would be so helpful and really don't know how to earn this much I can give 2 months to any skill as I have a data science course side by side but I really but money now. Helpppppp ....
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First start earning then you will realise, how much in debt you are already. You are having rose bedsheets on your bed but once life will hit you hard, you will realise how much money matters! Good luck!
I do really know the value of money but the situation I'm in is so weird my mind is never free I keep thinking things like what will happen if I don't clear the jee cutoff next year or about career and I'm too serious about this relationship I want it to work our families also know each other she has come to my house multiple times and met my mom and I have done the same we talk on video chat and our mothers have conversations with us so I think this relationship will not break I really want to earn money but every comment I received was about relationship and not what I asked for I gave my situation and wanted a solution but people suggested to ignore this relationship and focus on career I really know career is so so sooo important but I don't think I would be able to love anyone like I do now I really need a solution!!
I would tell u to focus on studies.. if she really cared abt u she would not make u spend money. See if it is worth it try communicating with her. If she is really into u she will care else she will quickly blame u and jump on to another prey
She is more like a child and as fas as I know she's really into me and we are like hell close to each other we are really close really really close and I had a conversation with her about focusing on studies but that to sounded like I was forcing her to study as she wants more conversations that time I tried to become so serious and practical but it didn't go well
Nibba
A gift should be an expression, not a burden.
Start setting boundaries with yourself now. If not, this habit could burn you out.
And if she's demanding you like this, it's better you leave her forever and focus on your life.
She's not demanding but I just made this a habit for her gifting her was easy earlier but now we also go to cafes and I make payments there
One more reason that students should not be allowed on GV