Parents burdening me with loan

I don't understand the current generation, they don't want to help their parents

They are also burdened by raising a kid like you

Tractor is money generating asset and land also. Borewell might be a necessity. I don't see unreasonable expenses here. What's the problem? They took a loan or they took a loan without consulting you first?

To make you feel better ; my parents asked me to loan out 20L to my uncle, for which I am paying 45k per month for 5 years. Btw the chance of getting any money back is slim to none. Cheery on top uncle already owed my Dad 30L.

Not your loan not your headache

Are you born after 2000..?

Not your loan, not your problem.
They don't own you. Refuse to pay it or ask clearly what's the ROI of the expenses(emotional, monetary, anything else)

Indians, especially sons, need to realise that this parents ki sewa, maa baap sab kuch hote hain and being a shravan kumar is destroying a lot of people's mental health.

You could talk about this to your parents and convince them about your burden once, if that is not possible, take some loan for yourself like real estate or any value added loan and tell your parents that you already paying some checks. end of the day, its your decision to support your father or taking self care.

Not a big deal you can easily get this sorted.

They made the right decisions, don't worry

IMO, you should sit them down and talk about both your and their finances. It will be a hard conversation but will go a long way.

Also tell them realistically how much your monthly expenses are how much you can realistically help them out.

I did see in other comments that they took loans at 26%interest??? I would also recommend helping them get loans through proper channels 26% is exorbitant, teaching them to be more financially smart.