Need life Advice
Everyone is asking me, when will I have baby? 1.5 years passed for my marriage, I am 25F young enough as I got married early in 23 years of age.
I am fed up of all people asking me that now it's enough time of your marriage, have baby.
I am very passionate person. I am not like I will not have baby but it's a very big thing and importantly my age is not gone for baby. And once I will get pregnant the life ahead will only focus on growing baby only. Many will defend but only experience people can understand.
According to you people what is the right time of having baby? Suggest some good things guys how to tackle with society?
You can't time few things. There's no right or wrong. It's like trading in stocks. You don't know the future- you can bet or not.
Same society would curse you if the baby is born with special needs. You need to also decide whether you want your child to face this world.
Its like people asking when are you switching and when you actually switch, no one cares
I am sharing with you my experience , i am married to a family where we have an epilepsy patient who is always in chaotic mode. Bringing a kid to a household like this was really scary for me. Even though people knew they still kept asking me when I would have the baby. Currently I am a mother of two kids not with pressure but when I felt that my situation with family is controllable and as a working professional if they will support me by taking care of them. Also a good plan on how kids will be raised.
My suggestion to you is plan what you want and trust me kids are a big task , they are your whole world , sometimes in too much stress you might question your decision but when it is who you have decided your life will be easier and happy.
On a seperate note, how did you get the confidence to marry someone at such a young age? I am 26 and I am still very scared about if I'll choose the correct partner or not
It will be your baby, don’t plan until you are ready financially and mentally . DM me
