CosmicHamster
CosmicHamster

Moving abroad dilemma

Guys so a little background. I am currently 22. Single child. And I am doing a job in Bangalore. I recently got my greencard for USA along with my parents. This presents me with an amazing opportunity to create a life in the USA. But one thing that keeps bothering me is that my parents would have to live here alone. They are around 50.

My dad suggests that I try for sometime in the USA and if I am happy I can continue, otherwise I can come back. But lets say I try for 5 years. I will be 27. Wouldn't it be too late to come back to India as I would have created a life in USA already and would be most probably be ready for marriage at that time and that demands a bit of stability.

Please give your advice. It would help a lot.

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JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
EY13mo

Green card at 22 without being in USA, how? 😳

CosmicHamster
CosmicHamster
Oracle13mo

Dad's sister put a file in 2008

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle
Lowe's13mo

Your father is not wrong . You should experience other countries too .

JazzyQuokka
JazzyQuokka

Did you apply for lottery? What's the process of green card?

CosmicHamster
CosmicHamster
Oracle13mo

Haha. My file was put in 2008 by my dad's sister.

JazzyQuokka
JazzyQuokka

Can you explain it. I also have relatives there
Btw I think it's better to go and experience.

JazzyBanana
JazzyBanana

Bro just go. You're too young to let this thinking affect your decision. The great thing is you'll always have the option to come back, but the opportunity to go there no strings attached is incredibly rare these days. Your parents will be fine, I imagine they're relatively young, still working and will manage things for themselves. Get the life experience while you don't have heft responsibilities!

SqueakyPickle
SqueakyPickle
Google13mo

Dont be affraid to take risk(/decision) at this young age. Its better to experience other countries.

GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

How are you getting a green card when people in the US are waiting for one for 20-30yrs

FuzzyPanda
FuzzyPanda
Amazon13mo

Bro I would've run on my foot from India to US if I was in your shoes

BubblyNugget
BubblyNugget

Us jana hi kyu h bhai. Kya acha mil jayega. 😅

BubblyNugget
BubblyNugget

Pehele decide kar le date karna h ya bahar jana h..ek toh bhai ko bandi chahiye.. uper se parents ka chinta ho rha .

Dekh bhai dono ek sath sahi se milna muskil h.🫠 Priority dekh lo..

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn

F you're confident of getting decent job go amd take your parents. It's a no brainer

PrancingCoconut
PrancingCoconut

Just leave bro, US is far better than this country.

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