SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Married men, what qualities or life skills should a man build before marriage to avoid regrets later?

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FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala

You can never avoid regret later about getting married, no matter what you do 😄

SquishyDonut
SquishyDonut

Fair point! But at least I can try reducing the regret percentage😀

FuzzyWaffle
FuzzyWaffle
Jio1d

Marraige is copium and failed shit

WobblyWalrus
WobblyWalrus

Never go to bed without resolving the fight.

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

Married?

FluffyQuokka
FluffyQuokka
HCL1d

Not all conflicts need to be resolved immediately. Not all people process the arguments the same way. Few go silent and need time. Take time and give time. If you want to solve it immediately, most likely it will escalate if both are on same tone.

TwirlySushi
TwirlySushi

Don't expect too much from marriage, and learn to listen and learn to ignore few things.

GroovyPenguin
GroovyPenguin
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SillyBoba
SillyBoba
  1. Learn to listen her with patience even if she's talking senseless things..
  2. Learn to take her side in family issues
  3. Learn to not teach her but suggest what can be improved..
  4. Learn some minor cooking..
    Help her in cooking even if little help possible..
  5. Give her idea about finances and include her on financial decisions.
WigglyPanda
WigglyPanda

5: What if she knows finances better? How can you assume she needs to learn it

SnoozyCoconut
SnoozyCoconut
  1. Financial stability
  2. Healthy body
  3. Emotional Maturity
  4. Masculinity (never be a yes man)
  5. Back up plan
  6. Strong skills whichever field
  7. Martial arts (know how to fight)
  8. First aid basics
  9. Driving (both 2 wheeler and 4 wheeler)
  10. Calmness
  11. Know how to cook (sometimes it is needed)
WigglyPanda
WigglyPanda

Best!

WigglyWaffle
WigglyWaffle

The best skill one can build is to not get married in the first place. It's just a money making scam these days. Both women and courts are so messed up, most men just struggle to get out

SleepyBanana
SleepyBanana

Learn to bear the bullets like a bullet proof jacket. Bullets are inevitable. Need to have a strong mind. No matter what. Wife is not the only source of problem. Your own people's reaction to your wife will also haunt you. Nothing to prepare. Just let things happen. Don't support or not-support anyone. Be diplomatic n politically correct

WigglyPanda
WigglyPanda

Good to see men asking these questions and getting sensible answers from men 🤌

PeppyBiscuit
PeppyBiscuit

Learn to let things go (past, present and future).
Financial stability
Learn to treat your woman right

BubblyPotato
BubblyPotato

He should know how to fix geyser😂😂😂

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

Electrician se kar lo

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