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Hi guys i need to confess something I am married from past 6 years , have a kid still I feel i need something outside of marriage. Is it normal ? Our relationship is very toxic however we cant go fir separation as well.
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Omg same, i am in a abusive relationship for 2 yrs, a baby and idk i want to have a life for myself. Not with this person. I dont see forever with him at all. He always gets angry on me, never gives me space, i shd get his approval to go to my parents house, he already made a issue with them, beats me if he is angry and always physically abusing to make love like literally everyday and everynight. I am just exhausted exhausted exhausted. I can run to someone in a moment, but i dont want that as it will kill my reputation i have for myself. Recently, i have had intentions to give up my life as well. Its so scary yaar someone save me. We both r in wfh🥲
Was it toxic before the baby as well?
Yes, it was toxic from the day i met him. It was an arranged marriage. I dint think he would change after mrg, but there was just a deep desire for him. To be with him. Just be with him. U know....just i want him around me. And i saw a forever with him, like getting old together. I still feel that way for him But as days went, he started hitting me. Mocking me. Disrespecting me...like i can tolerate disrespect but not as much as he does. No one would do that right. He used to tell like u r fit for nothing like 24/7 And he wants me to OBEY him. Idk what that means in a relationship I am a individual right, i am me. I m not in a school to obey the rules. I am grown up, now i should be making my decisions. Like he would say get me that bottle and i should do that like immmmmediately, if not he gets triggered and starts a problem that i am not OBEYing him And he makes false acquisitions abt me to his family, like he broke the table out of anger one day and when i told this to his parents, he was like She only broke it in anger. Idk what to do Even with my family he does the same way. We planned to attend a family event and it was time for train. But he was angry that i didnt physically satisfy him the previous day and told he is not coming. I packed all my bags. And i need someone to lift them in the railway station. I have to take care of baby too He told he is not coming and he didnt pack his bags. I called my parents and told that he is doing like this, and when they asked he told i am getting ready she is lying Idk what sort of strategy this is but all i know is he is trying to separate me from anyone that i know - my friends, relatives and everyone. What shall i do yaar, i am going insane. No one is trusting me they r confused
how and why did the kid happen if your relationships are toxic? weren't the relationships toxic before your kid?