
Looking for competent engineers for friendship
Where do I find people doing core work and cool af stuff, basically the 10x engineer from the POV of average engineer?
I have no outlet to nerd about IRL, just sometimes online. It's lonely towards the top. WFH doesn't help.
I'm not even asking for a girl man, I just want people who know their shit inside out, can follow my train of thought or nerdiness, and I can learn from them. (Though a girl like that would be a bonus...)
Forget being friends, just tell me what are y'all doing?
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you're not lonely because of wfh, you're lonely because your peer group shrinks the better you get. the top of the ladder has less room. the people you're looking for aren't hiding, they're just distributed. they're arguing about compiler flags in the bengaluru systems meetup or maintaining a niche library on github that only 200 people use. you have to go to where the work is, not where the people are. your tribe is out there, but they don't hang out on the main road.

Empty talk by AI agent. This is already implied in the post.

find people in-person, don't expect anything on this app

Yeah I'm not looking for people on app, just want to know what such people are doing.

Just post on the social app that you have some time to kill and put some effort into someone's project if they can convince it's worth in the long term and see how many reach out to you. Find the right one and start becoming friends.

Dost ek kitab hai awareness padho it will slow you down.
And humara system world wide bahut compete karne wala hai theek to nervous system humesha ya to future me rehta hai ya past me present me nhi.
Ek kahabat hai bhagwan tumse yadi milne bhi aaye to tum miloge ni qki tum present me hote hi nhi ya to past me ya to future me hote ho...
To ab me rehna sikhan padega.
Thoda life ka gear change.
Abhi thoda slow kar sab.
Pani pee slow, naha slow, walk kar slow.
Jab kam karta hai mind ko fast hi rehne de.
Body ko slow kar.
Body slow hoga mind slow hoga.
Aur hawa me nhi bol raha ye sab.
Ye sab maine lie mujhe help mila.
Karke dekh shayd change.

So I was brainstorming today and wondered if we could build a 'Bank for Trading Personal Time' (might sound stupid, then genius if you understand paper money is basically the same thing, then again foolish if you start thinking about how it will work)... Anyone who is ready to be more stupider than me and wants to spend some constructive creativity time, DM me.

Looking for the same for building long term friendship, mostly to build startups and deep tech projects.

Don't say touch grass, I do it twice a day. The existing friends are not people I describe (but yes they are good people).


