Life Downfall story
A bit long story
2016: I graduated from 10th on 28th March
I used to get lot of beatings from my dad and mom on both study and every choice i used to make, i mean making me choked and all u can’t imagine
28th march i got out of school and 1st april i was sended to Kota for iit coaching without me knowing
2018 : 12th over iit exam: got 7 marks, parents again sended me to do IIT 2019: got 56 marks already fcuked my life
2919: Got admission to SRM AP college, Started studying hard , parents said not to talk to any girl no matter what happens,
saw that in entire college only 12 students were speaking hindi was just cussing my life…
Fast forward to 2023 i was top coder in entire srm branch , full famous among students.
Placement cycle starts and i was removed from placements as my 12th score was 67% and my btech cgpa was 92%
I mean plssss kill mee what is this life
I came out unplaced for the entire year seeing everyone getting placed. with so less knowledge
2023: Got into an Internship in BIPL as a frontend intern: such a mf manager he only used to helps the girls and when i ask him the doubt he used to throws me away
2024: Got into Viamagus company: with 25k salary and been 1.5 years still same can’t blame anyone
life has been always a tragedy for me.
I recieve calls from frnds laughing at me saying kya ukhaad liya bhai tune 1000 leetcode aur din bhar codechef krke hum tere se kaai guna kama rhe h and it’s true it’s sad that i am in this situation right now.
I think i haven’t moved on from on any story of my life.
I have seen worst of the things happening to me and i am sure it will keep happening to me until i die. This is just like 10% of my life i have faced discrimination of my color , not have achieved anything in life.
Lastly just a person who is dead but living.
PS: whatever anyone says doesn’t makes sense to me i am broke
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In our entire life, you will face prosperity as well as happiness for a very short time.( P.S. wealth is not equivalent to happiness. )
The rest of your life will be a mix of happiness, sadness, frustration, embarrassment, fun moments, hardships. That's why it's called Life.
Take it as it comes. Let's not make your earning your identity, you are much more than that. Try to focus on other aspects of life. It's already hard to find happiness, just don't make it harder!
yeah sadhguru, when you’re makin 40lacs annually i’m sure that hamburger tastes good
These many people are giving lectures in comments atleast refer this person who is struggling to make 25k at 26 year old. I guess a decent pay will sort most of the problems.
- Efforts without direction is waste
- Overthinking Kills you slowly.
- Blame No One But Yourself.
- Silence has power
Gyan pelna har jagah nhi chalta. He is broken. Kaan maat bharo uske.
1000 leet code problem solving can you do this without having any ambition? He has done best of everything. It’s just life is not kind to “anyone” start working on your mental toughness life will get better with time 🙂😀
You can clear any good company as you have done so much of dsa questions. Try applying to good product based companies, you can easily crack interview as frontend interview preparation is not too much you can cover in 2 months.
Only problem is they usually don't look at your resume without some good college tag (was in similar situation). So always try to go for referrals, which is faster.
Cold dms on linkedin or email if you don't have any contacts in the industry...
It's true but people are getting interview. You can ask for refferal to 10-15 people for any openings. Share your leetcod, codeforces etc platform stats. You will easily get refferal, try asking refferal from people having less connections or followers.
Mate sorry to hear, but hear me out! 9 YoE, 11LPA only, jobless for 3 months and the ones whom I considered to be friends didn't help me. But such is life, there's always ups and downs and I'm pretty sure you'd get over it.
Always remember this Don't look at the person above you, look at the person below you and thank God he's kept you here!
Not to be harsh but if you get the offer you have in hand and think “yeh he kismat mei mila” then nothing good will happen. Don’t settle for what life gives you.
Trust me there is no going up IF you keep focusing on the negatives. Some AI(actionable items) for you:
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Start grinding DSA again. You were best in college, it should not be hard for you to do it all again.
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Showcase your resume like it’s gold platted.. don’t shy away from exaggerating the impact. But be sure that you can back it up as well(ie. you should know your stuff).
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Leverage your network smartly and start applying. Don’t just cold email with broken English and a poor resume. Think from the perspective of the referrer, would you have referred yourself? Be honest.
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Improve your soft skills, this includes your spoken and written skills both.
I have seen so many referral requests and tbh, I don’t even want to download their resume. The way they reached out to me was enough for me to know that they won’t even get an interview call(and they didn’t).
How you converse matters a lot in corporate.
After seeing the “sended” twice in your post, I won’t even download your resume for referral. Typos are fine but this seems like a gap in your vocabulary. Please focus on soft skills as well. It’s very important.
I know it might be harsh but better to hear the truth than some fairy tale.
Some sweet for you: You have already aced college and leetcode. You clearly know your stuff but in India all they care about is your academic results. The good news - Once you step in corporate, your work will matter the most. Elite colleges will get an upper hand but you can catch up.
PS - My college doesn’t even show up in any list when I was applying for competitions and stuff. Currently, I am at par with what my IIT counterparts get. A lot of hard work and little bit of luck.
Conclusion: 1.5 yoe is nothing. You have just started, it’s time to grind. Do it for yourself and not to boast to your friends. STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF!!
Bhai Ek na ek baar to mehnt krni padegi, chahe JEE me krte ya Abhi Switch me. 1 baar to dena hi padega 100% life ka focus serious hoke.
Me gyan ni choduga, meri bhi same kahani h! Lekin realise ho gya hai mehnt to 1 baar krni padegi ab
No, you are not. A graphite is in the process of becoming a diamond. Keep going. Get experience from whatever company you are doing then give interviews in the better company and keep going on.
Send your resume and email. I can refer you in American Express. While the competition is pretty crazy, who knows you might get a chance to sit for an interview
Bas tera time sahi nahi hai, after this you will make more money