DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

[Lesson]: Letting go is hard, but necessary..!!

Life's easier if we just stop romanticizing other people's actions.

Why they became cold. Why they hurt us. Why they left.

Because most of the time, they did what they did because they wanted to- end of the story. It’s that moment when you realize a certain connection no longer feels safe, or kind, or respectful or mutual. Maybe it’s the weight of repeated hurt. You don’t always announce it. There’s no dramatic exit. Just a subtle shift- a decision to not beg people to stay, to no longer feel the way you have felt all along.

And sometimes, the healthiest thing you can do is walk away from what unsettles your spirit, even if it once felt like HOME! It doesn’t mean forgetting or pretending it didn’t matter, it means honoring the experience, feeling the emotions that come with it, and choosing to move forward with grace.

Probably one last time💯

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SparklyRaccoon
SparklyRaccoon

This reminds me of a very beautiful line from a movie.

You can be mad as a mad dog at the way things went. You can cry and curse fate. But when it comes to the end. You have to let go.

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

That's powerful. It’s a tough truth, sometimes the only way forward is through acceptance, even when everything in you wants to fight it.

Thanks for sharing🙂

FuzzyQuokka
FuzzyQuokka

The curious case of Benjamin Button

PerkyWaffle
PerkyWaffle

Walking away wasn’t the hardest part.

The real pain was watching them, five days a week, create the same bond with someone else right in front. As if what we had never existed that hurt the most 🥲

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

Walking away wasn’t hard, seeing it never mattered to the other person was!
I have never begged anyone to stay but I said please that day! This was hard

PerkyNarwhal
PerkyNarwhal

💔

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

@Medley You wanted to read it!

GroovyMochi
GroovyMochi

Kya ho gya medley ko?

ZestyBurrito
ZestyBurrito

Ohhhh thank you!!! You are a sweetheart 🫰🏻

GoofyPancake
GoofyPancake

Maybe it’s the weight of repeated disappointments, or the way their energy lingers long after the conversation ends, leaving you drained instead of understood. Maybe, it’s how they treat you when they know you might get hurt. Always remember, it's never selfish wanting to save yourself from the hurt.

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

Yup, agreed💯

PerkyNarwhal
PerkyNarwhal

I am not able to letting go. His actions hurt me but i know i will never get someone like him. He is not giving me commitment , he knows i have feelings for him. He is neither accepting me nor leaving me. Still he is looking for other girls.

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

I know it’s hard. But, accepting the reality is a way forward. If he is not giving the commitment, what’s the point of liking? It will not go anywhere!

GoofyBurrito
GoofyBurrito

Story time 👀

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

Time is gone now🫥

PrancingPotato
PrancingPotato

Life’s easier if we focus on what’s in our control 🫶

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DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

This is probably a good thing I have seen so far😋

GroovyMochi
GroovyMochi

Story btao yr @Introvertbeing

DancingCoconut
DancingCoconut

Ab kya batana😪 It’s too late🫥

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