Is it all hopeless for a girl to find decent marriage proposals at 31?
We are not money minded, but life throws curveballs quite early in your life, which tells you that money is probably not everything, but without a great financial backing, growth in life is just difficult. So you focus on studies, careers, office dynamics and figure things out. In the process, discover parts of yourself you didn't know existed - daring, survival insticts, recognising the snake in people, understanding life and people are not linear. That efforts are not always linearly rewarded. That life is, maybe sometimes, unfair. You also have a health to take care, figuring out your stay. Figuring out competition. And before you know it - you have been fighting and winning too many battles. Forgetting that the most important battle is still left. A good life partner makes all the difference... But now that I go about finding a partner who complements me, good ones gone, the ones left are insecure of our money and designation. In laws want you to cook and take care of husband.
Do you sometimes just feel... Like.. where does it stop.. if it ever?
And I am not talking about babies too.
And the minute you pay attention to personal life, professional life starts falling apart and one mistake, and you are passed over for promotion.
What race is this? And why so unfair?
Yes.
Time to adopt a cat.
Yup @Elon_Musk atleast they will be loyal.
The tables turn after 30 it's harder for girls to get good husbands not the other way around. Get some actual hobbies and work on your looks+ physique you will get prospects from there
It makes me laugh how no matter what indians expect daughter in law to cook and the same is not expected from their son. Both need to take care of each other.
Majority population is of same mentality. You need to stick to your values and keep searching.
At the end it's your life, your happiness that matters.
Thanks @WorseSpelling . Needed someone to tell me exactly this .
It's not hopeless but it is difficult. At least most of the men I know are not intimidated by a girl who earns a lot they would actually prefer it, who doesn't want to marry rich?
It's not that the good ones are gone. There are plenty of unmarried men around 30. But it is difficult to find a good partner, both from male and female perspective. You just have to keep looking and putting yourself out there.
Like is unfair to everyone. You just gotta accept that and play the cards you're dealt. But you'll find your person don't worry so much about it. When the time is right it'll happen.
Thanks @Chummli
U need to learn to balance between both. Otherwise nothing can make sense
Easier said than done.. but yes you are right
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