Is dating hard for nerds?
Hi! I'm a 18 year old cs student and I currently work as a swe at a well funded startup. I've spent my whole school life doing programming, open source stuff & studying & didn't try dating back then.
Everyone around me is dating and I'm getting FOMO from that. I tried out Bumble but the girls I matched with weren't my type, most were really extroverted and not nerdy at all. How do I find nerdy/like-minded women?
also I'm a sub and most Indian women are subs so there's that too.
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It gets better when you grow up, been in the same boat. As you grow (and women around you grow) I feel the kind of men they look for change (and will skew a lot more in your favour).
Keep trying, meeting people, you never know when you find someone.
Don't take a lot of pressure, just know it's going to be a slow process:)
First, you don't really need to date someone like you. The best couples are complimentary in terms of personality and skills.
Second, you shouldn't box yourself or others into categories. People can change a lot over the years and there are many aspects to any personality that takes time to mature and develop.
Third, you can solve for loneliness by making friends. Even dating happens after you make friends, not before. You need to know the person somewhat before you commit to them seriously. Make friends with both genders, everything else comes later.
Timewaster hai vo sab mat soch bhai be single and achieve something they will run behind u later
You need to adjust and experiment.