I am diagnosed with Primary APS ( blood clotting syndrome), I need to take blood thinner tablet lifelong to prevent any future blood clot,
I am currently unmarried, so I just wanted to understand from a female here as in the Arrange marriage setup, If you got know know about this disease during first meet up, will you consider for marriage, although it's not risky If I take medicines regularly it's just autoimmune disease
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DO NOT hide this from a girl before marriage. Irrespective of someone saying no or yes to marriage.
If you don't disclose this and your partner gets to know about this later, it will lead to destruction of both of your lives and families as well
I will choose not to marry lifelong rather than hiding it my partner, just wanted to understand how female thinks of it
If it's arranged marriage, most of girls or girl family will reject you. One of my male friend did arranged marriage n the girl is also having same issue. They have decided tk adopt kid n their familes r in sync. If a girl agrees for marriage would suggest u both visit dr together so that she understands things well...there r many cases where ppl later say that they thought it's a small thing n u lied or didn't disclose everything.
There is no issue for baby if male is APS, only female with APs may have pregnancy issue
How you find out ,you need to take for a lifetime... I have been diagnosed with CVT and am currently on blood thinner for 6 months.
I have DVT & pulmonary embolism, god saved me then checked why clot formed & found that it's due to APS, for APS patient lifelong blood thinner is only solution
Whenever you meet someone pls discuss it if a person is understanding and you both are compatible then I don't think it will cause any issue. You just need a supporting and understanding partner.
Don't know but I am now worried, I have never been in a relationship thinking I would find someone only to marry otherwise no relationship, but now when you are 26 & coming year you start looking to settle your life by finding a partner, life has played the biggest challenge of my life, I don't think any girl will accept me, although it's not something risky but only lifelong medicines required
Generally hiding is not good, especially for something that needs to be taken care for life.
Same time do not expect people will be readily supportive and understanding. There will be rejections and mentally be prepared for that.
You will eventually be able find your partner. Sometime you might need to compromise on some aspects of your future partner.
Agree but just wanted to understand how a female thinks in this scenario
Did doctor advice you to get married? What are compatible blood groups of the girl? Will this impact pregnency or progeny? Will it impact next generation? If everything is medically manageable hide it n get married. After 1 or 2 weeks, visit a doctor, stage a drama, as if you are in the process of diagnosis and tell her doctor prescribed you this medicine for 30 days. Then she will get used to this tab. Say it's like thyroid tab. You can say 1000 lies to get married. You are gonna hide the truth. Dont tell now,
I did not hide mine after health progressed downward, and he backed out after 8 years of relationship. Rather be ready for anything. Mine is autoimmune too.
Personally I would have stood by him. If it’s an arranged marriage, it’s a different story.
I would appreciate honesty and this would not be a factor in deciding...
Brother same for its,s not tabbo just a Single medicine forever don't pretend as a Disease im taking from past 3 years