WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana

How to find women who are active on their careers and wish to have a family too?

Hi everyone.

I am a software engineer and all my life, I have majorly focused on my careers. I do have hobbies, but yeah they did got buried in the the hustle of life. I do sometimes sketch, but I click pictures often.

I am a simple guy, like no drink or smoke, and the only interaction I have now is office. Add gym and work escalations, yeah, the time is just killing itself. I don't club or typically the modern stuff, people in corporate do.

People around me are settling down, it just made me to think what I want from me as well? I realised I can be only with someone who is active on her career as well, and who wishes to become a mother too. But they will also be too busy in their lives, and might be wondering where can they find their partner as well?

From my side, tbh, I can man up and become more strong. A strong financial foundation built from scratch and a mindset to solve problems. But, how can I find her?

Cooking, cleaning, these things don't matter and can be effectively managed. True bonds will be formed only when we get through and learn stuff together, and hence forming a family.

I don't know how to cook that much, learning myself, how can I expect someone else to cook for me 😂

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GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

knot dating is quite helpful but you need to look beyond regular aspects of marriage

date a lot of women first learn aspects of life, don’t settle down asap with the first person you find btw

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana

Bhai, match h nhi aate

SnoozyBurrito
SnoozyBurrito

As a girl, I would just like to say -

  1. Approach girls in person (if you know they’re single) and do it with confidence. Confidence is sexy, creepiness isnt.

  2. Take an unenthusiastic yes as a NO and accept rejection with grace.

  3. Be the person that you would like to date - all the qualities that you want your partner to have, try and be them.

Hopefully this helps :)

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle

As someone who’s similar and surrounded by career-oriented women, I can say this: you won’t come across them easily. Many of us are introverted, invested in our own hobbies, and have our own world going on. Our standards aren’t about money,they’re about respect. At the end of the day, we just want someone with whom we can switch off our minds and feel at ease.

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana

I understand this, and tbh, I am in the same shoes too. How to reach my one? And even if I get close to my one, how to make sure she is completely safe and I am serious about her?

My question still stands the same.

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana

May I know what sort of hobbies you guys have.

I do photography, Sketching and poem writing.

I love discussions, of any kind. Listening and understanding and summarising, my brain loves it.

Pls tell the above if you are comfortable

WobblyWaffle
WobblyWaffle

Have u ever been in a relationship before?

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana

Nhi bhai

TwirlyQuokka
TwirlyQuokka

Have lots money...Tbh if you dont look handosome then you should not expecting these..being quit honest ...why a brilliant women who is suppose to do 2 job (housewife/mother and corporate employee) will settle for you..things like loyalty,caring etc doesnt count...

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana

Bhai, phir to mudda h khatam hogya na, aadhe india k shaadi h nhi hoti phir to.

Aur maine kab bola mujhe bahut sundar ladki chahiye, mai average hun, jo kayi ladkiyan khud ko average manti hai na, mujhe bahut sundar lagti hai.

Baki aapka point samajh gya, I need to work on myself, so I appear attractive.

TwirlyJellybean
TwirlyJellybean

Bro buy a PS5 instead 🙂🙂🙂🙂🥲🥲

GoofyBagel
GoofyBagel

You mean you need a person just like you 🙄

WobblyBanana
WobblyBanana

Han matlab, esa h kuch

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