Heart’s conflict
I've been in a long-distance relationship with Aditya for a while now. We met in college and fell in love. But after graduation, he got a scholarship to study abroad and I stayed back in India to start my career in IT
I miss him so much. We talk every day, but it's not the same as being together. I feel lonely and disconnected. Cause adityas instagram profile is full with new frnds,close selfies with girls and parties vacations etc etc. But when ever I call him he speaks like as if it’s the least thing to do.
Sometimes I wonder if I’m just holding on to something that's no longer working.
Recently, I met Arjun at work. He's a colleague who's always willing to lend a helping hand. We've become friends. He's kind, funny, and understanding, with a quick wit that always makes me laugh. But there's something more to him that I can't quite put my finger on - a spark that ignites whenever we're together.
We've started grabbing lunch together, and I've caught him looking at me in a way that makes my heart skip a beat. I've tried to brush it off as friendly banter, but deep down, I wonder if there's something more between us. He's been dropping hints, like asking me out for coffee or suggesting we grab dinner together outside of work. I'm torn between my feelings for Aditya and the undeniable chemistry I'm starting to feel with Arjun.
I feel guilty about my feelings for Arjun. I'm still committed to Aditya, and I don't want to hurt him. At the same time, I don't know if our relationship is sustainable in the long run. I'm confused and unsure of what to do next.
What should I do
Talking product sense with Ridhi
9 min AI interview5 questions
they both are cheating on you, they both are gay
How are you committed to Adi when you have feelings for arjun. Stop lying to yourself and move on.
Ask the AI you used...
You're in dilemma as Aditya not giving you much time and you are second guessing yourself that what if Aditya moved on and will get a new partner and you'll be left alone you liked Arjun but not able to commit thinking what if Aditya waiting for you and you're about to miss US lifestyle if that happens.
You need to figure out what you really need
- A partner who loves you and you love him (Not Certain as you're still thinking ) Arjun
- A partner you loved and he loves you (Not certain if you doubt him due to long distance) Aditya
- A lifestyle you want to have after marriage whether be it india or Abroad (Arjun can move to Abroad who knows or Aditya can come back )
You need to speak openly to Aditya regarding your expectations if you still love him and hear about what's on his mind regarding Marriage and if he's hesitating and not clear then I would suggest you to move on with Arjun and live happily.
Again it's not us who should take these decisions as you already know and it's directly involved with your life. So take your time and take decisions carefully.
Aditya would have already used you physically and that's why you feel so disconnected now because once you get attached with someone physically it becomes very hard to live without it for long. Arjun trying to get chance to use your physically. And your body is also demanding s*x. Chances are high that sooner or later you will get laid with Arjun. But I can tell you one thing, if I guy is quick enough to ask out and funny enough to impress a girl, chances are high that he might have already multiple gfs. You will be just one of them and within few months to max year or 2 he will move to other once he gets bored of you.
Not everyone have that cheap mindset
This exact same thing happened with my girlfriend 4 years back. In her story I was Arjun. I made all the nice gestures and everything went well along the way. And we finally got together and I made sure I give her so much love that she forget about Aditya. And that is exactly what happened.
But there is a twist.. My family didn’t agree for our wedding so I had to breakup with her recently and I got engaged to someone else.
Bottomline - If Arjun is going to marry you 100% then he’s the right guy. In most cases this doesn’t happen. So Idk. You decide. But nonetheless, Aditya is an a joker for sure. Leave him. 🙂↔️
Try to talk and sort it out with Aditya, aise assumptions lekr chlne ka kya hi matlab bnta hai.
Seems like a story by AI
Typical corporate hoe