Guys who were introvert/shy what did you do to come out of your shell or are you the same now as well?
For me there is an unusual joy in keeping quiet and observing people wherever I go, but at the same time now I have become quite firm in my thoughts that I might get judged if i open up or speak so why bother interacting with folks around. But it hits hard that I might have been liked by somebody but due to me being silent they could never get to know how I'm like or about my true self. Did you guys also feel the same and how did you overcome this?
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I just stopped caring about what people thought about me.
Started going out solo on community group trips over the weekends. Living with a bunch of total strangers and doing a common activity like cleaning up drives, hiking trips, nature trails made me accustomed to a diverse range of people be it location, age, genders etc. This really helped me boost my confidence and I have kind of turned into an extrovert.
yes it is in the nature and i have raised the introvert ones are the smartest cookies
Got lucky ,
Met harami friends in college
Sab sikha diya
Had few good "Girl" friends.
A good hearted "Girl" is all you need, not girlfriend.
And I didn't approach them or they approach me to be friends... it just happened during a lecture in class.