BubblyPickle
BubblyPickle
1d

Girl or Job i am a bit confused rn

Soo i was meeting this girl from more than a month 3 times a week and we used to spend time like from 7pm - 1 am

I had a gf in past she died in a road accident back.

Now the thing is i like talking to this girl a lot and mutually we both , rn ig we r still on friends i mean friends but a slightly more.

The thing is I wanted to leave my job from last 3 months before i met her only and I have got 100% hike in the new job offer but that is in a different city.

Ab baat yeh h kii what should i give priority to?

The girl whom i love having friendship with or the job where i wanna go with new incremented salary???

1d ago
JumpyPretzel
JumpyPretzel

Career first, always and forever, except in case of spouse/life-partner, and parents.

BubblySushi
BubblySushi

And Kids. Cannot live without these little bundles of chaos.

FuzzyBiscuit
FuzzyBiscuit

Bina career/money ke na spouse rukti hai, na kids na parents khush hote hai. So career and money sarvopari

GroovyKoala
GroovyKoala

Paise k upar sirf bhagwan hota hai. Baki sab uske niche.

FluffyBurrito
FluffyBurrito

If there's truly a feeling your distance won't matter; if you look for casual relationship, you will end up in regret if you choose the girl now or you will find another girl if you choose otherwise

BubblyPickle
BubblyPickle

I am just looking for a new connection and with this new i think a lot of our ideologies matches up which i don’t know i can again find up in another person

SqueakyHamster
SqueakyHamster

💰

MagicalBiscuit
MagicalBiscuit

Career bhai!! Also if you have feelings let her know,make it clear. But job/career first!!

ZoomyBagel
ZoomyBagel

Bruv got a 100% hike and still is choosing to stay with in the friendzone. Props to you OP. I would have packed my bags and moved out (unless I believe it was a once in a life kind of love)

SnoozyMochi
SnoozyMochi

Tell her that you have lost your current job and need some financial help - see what she says.

This will show you the actual nature and will help you to make a decision girl or job.

But as per my suggestion career first and then rest

BubblyPickle
BubblyPickle

yeah i believe that’s the ideal choice, it’s just that i feel good with her

ZippyBoba
ZippyBoba

Stay with the girl

SparklyNugget
SparklyNugget
17h

Being a girl I can say choose your job. You can maintain long distance if you both are really into each other.

WigglyMuffin
WigglyMuffin
17h

Both are equally important, find the concent path.

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