Break up tips
We've been together for 2 months and I just can't take it anymore, she's very invested on me,also very dumb, how do I get out of the relationship in an optimal way.
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You'll get smarter women on hinge. Have an intervention by being very honest about what isn't working out and how she really isn't at fault for it and call it off amicably. At the end of the day she is a human being, don't leave scars. It is a small world after all.
Yes, I'm not gonna hurt, she's a very sweet person
Tell her it’s you and not her. You can’t tell her the truth that’s a given. So few options:
1/ say you are not over your ex or how your past relationship ended, so you are still insecure about that. Need some time to work on that, and it’s not fair to her.
2/ financial pressure at home so have to focus on work and home not relationship.
3/ changing cities and long distance does not work.
Or just ask her to move in. She would be scared about how this is moving too fast and break up with you.
I don’t know about both of you. But from a general perspective, just a small tip - sometimes there are other strengths in a person where they can help you to improve and vice versa. In a new relationship, it always feels like their is no equation initially because of these hiccups of other person being on different page. But that’s what takes the struggle to build it into something awesome. I mean think of it in this way, when you work hard to solve a problem - the kind of happiness you get at the end is worth it. That’s what relationships also need. Time and work. Be clear about this with her but don’t just jump ship.
Mein itna gyaan isiliye de rha hu because I was in a similar situation and wanted to break up, but I am glad I worked on with her. And it’s been wonderful 6 years. You grow as a person and relationship evolves.
You can ignore this also and take other good suggestions as well in comments. Your choice. Be mindful about how you break the news.
Dumb in the sense ? Like not as educated as you or something you are comfortable elaborating a Lil.
Stupid people are dangerous to others around them. But breakup can be costly if she's rich or beautiful. Make sure you find a better partner than her.
Say that this relationship isn't what you expected it to be and that it's not working out well since there is a difference in the way you think. Be honest and don't drag the relationship when you're not interested in it. It'll make it harder for both if you do.
