CosmicDumpling
CosmicDumpling

A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it.

I often see discussions like

  • "Women have been misled into thinking that being a mother is worse than working"
  • Stay-at-home moms caring for toddlers around the clock are often dismissed as overreacting when they express exhaustion.
  • Motherhood is praised as beautiful, but a pregnant woman's body is criticized

& when women see motherhood labeled as a thankless job and choose a different path that garners respect, people dawn their surprised Pikachu face.

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GroovyBoba
GroovyBoba

I don't think society should care. You want to be a mother? cool. You don't want to be a mother? Cool. Why should anyone care.

SquishyCoconut
SquishyCoconut

Bhai log toh bhagwan se bhi khush nahi rehte so hum insaan kya karen. Society kya sochti hai usse zyada important hai ek aurat apne baarein mein kya sochti hai. Jo sahi lage wahi karo.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Duniya toh hmesha bolegi. Find your real happiness. The one who has ears opened to what the world has to say often makes wrong decisions. So, better to not get influenced by anything and find our own answer.

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