27 F Need some advice
Lately, I’ve been feeling a strange attraction towards married men from my office. Some of them are quite charming and mature, and I can’t help but be drawn to them. However, I’m torn between my feelings and the potential consequences. I don’t want to ruin someone’s relationship, and I’m not sure if I can handle the emotional turmoil of being in a relationship with a married man. Despite this, I’ve received several dinner or coffee date proposals from some of them, and I can’t help but feel a bit flattered.
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That's just a phase but don't be a homewrecker😊
There are many single unmarried guys here.
This 💯
True. Plenty of deserving and handsome men are there but she is attracted towards married men, in this case she can either marry a divorcee or date an elder man 👨
The flattery feeling comes from the thought that they are choosing you over someone who's supposed to be the most special person in their life. Makes you feel extra special compared to single men choosing you.
But if you think from those men's perspective, they are hunting for someone who has low enough standards to have "just fun" with a married man. Of course those men have low standards too to begin with.
There are single men too who fall for such flattery from married women.
Both men and women should fight such urges and always go for healthy long-term relationships. Good for both mind and society.
I think you are right….to be honest, this is the best explanation of all
We have bhabhi lover everywhere 😉
If you are looking for maturity, you need to show some maturity.
Stay in your lane and don't ruin a home
wow, so the men who are cheating on their wife are not a concern for you… instead you are advising me to stay in my lane. This is a perfect example of misogyny
who has that control? me or you ? go tell their partner
or stop being a keyboard warrior
@CooperativeAntecedent34 hey. it's quite natural to get attracted towards colleagues working at the same workplace. The only thing you need to care about is to be practical, talk to them, know their intentions, work out common interests and proceed accordingly. At the end of the day, you are a human being and you have a right to live a life you choose to be.
You sound like chatGPT
Karma will hit back
Mine or those disloyal men?
Given their legal vulnerability, why risk approaching me? They should respect boundaries and stay away accordingly.
THERAPY
Pata nahi logo kya ho gaya hai , eak mai yaaha virgin baitha hu ki muze virgin wife milegi but yaha to ladkiya married men ke peeche padi hai, just imagine apki daughter hoti wo aisa apse question puchti ki mumma batayo muze married men pasand hai .
Ab aisi baate karoge to virgin hi reg jaaoge na!! Imagine apke padosi aapse kahe ki beta tum Abhi tak virgin kyu ho?
Being married for 15 years i have faced multiple women approaching me various times...however i have a strong rule of no relationships or even friendship at work. Helped me grow massively in my career.
Mostly my reportees tried to get too close.. they think life gets easy with a tamable manager.Not to mention that i have super lovely wife.
Men saw, smiled, felt proud and wishing many many more years of togetherness 🧿
Woman to woman, if a married man is showing interest in dating you, firstly he's not dating worthy and probably not a good human to say the least!
If you're not looking for anything serious, there are unmarried guys out there for that also! So choose wisely🙂
If I were in your place, I would have rejected those proposals by calling them CHEATER on face!!
I would have called them cheater. But, I like the attention to be honest.