26M, 1.1 lacs pm, 3.5 yoe, feeling like getting married but
I think I should switch to reach 1.5 - 2 lacs pm before making my mind for marriage.
@SpoiledGenius I will enjoy more with my partner than with my friends. So thats why I have not travelled much yet. Because its so much fun to travel with your "best friend for life".
@JustAnotherSoul , accha laga optimism dekh k . But every phase is beautiful on its own. Being a married person I can definitely say you are in a golden phase. Let me tell you my story. I joined TCS in 2017. Slogged hard and finally was able to crack Deloitte in 2021. Deloitte was paying me around 95k per month. I was 26 at that time. That’s when my family members started looking for bride and next year I got married. I have traveled with my partner, it’s fun . But travelling with your bachelor Friends is a fun experience as well. So don’t miss that. Shaadi to karna hi hai. 30 k baad se life long you will be involved in multiple responsibilities. Leaving a life with least responsibilities is a blessing. But again if you want to get married now , no one is stopping you. Sabki apni apni preference hoti hai. Best of luck for your future buddy
Abe 2 saal enjoy karo , kya itna jaldi shaadi karna hai !! Live your life to fullest . Yeh time you will miss for sure.
Get married at 28-29 first child after stability so around at 32 and by the time they will be 25 you will be around 60+ retired and near avg life expectancy.
Not a good idea but getting married at just 1.1 lakh in hand is another risk, atleast need 1.5+ for basic life necessities post the marriage expenses.
If she is earning as well, I don’t think there’s an issue. You can travel with your wife and still plan trips with your friends, it really depends on your partner. However, before getting married, make sure you discuss all important aspects like finances, children and future plans and ensure you both are on the same page.
Also, be prepared that there may be situations where your parents or in-laws start expecting you to have a baby soon after marriage.
Why does it matter. You can switch after getting married also. Just do what makes you happy stop trying to optimise everything so much
I have made a 6 months plan to roam around places so I thought my weekends and some other leaves will be utilised in that post marriage.. thats why I was questioning myself.
If you are at expert level at your skill sets, if you are confident enough to get a new job at any point of time, then yes, get married.
