25 YOE, TC ~50 LPA, Still No Genuine Partner… Is This the New Normal?
25M, Indian, based out of Bengaluru, TC ~50LPA Cash + Bonus. Decent looking, well-spoken, but struggling to find any genuine partner. Tried all the usual suspects—Tinder, Bumble, Hinge. Either it’s ghosting, endless texting that goes nowhere, or the rare match that feels more transactional than real. Fake profiles pop up on dating apps more than real people. Can’t exactly hit on people at work, becomes messy in my opinion. So, where the hell do people even meet real partners these days? Is this just how it is now? I keep seeing stuff about people meeting partners through hobbies, like gym buddies, sports groups, painting classes, dance events or even book clubs. Anyone here ever had success meeting a real partner through an activity, NOT a dating app? If NOT dating apps, what actually works? Drop your thoughts below.
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the current benchmark for getting a date is 55LPA, you just missed it buddy. maybe in your bonus month...
Dear Ted Moseby
Marriage is like a 40 year Investment and lots of responsibilities. So why the hurry. Take your time. Till then watch "How I met your mother" and just do your thing.
"Is 50LPA enough to buy a partner in Bangalore?" No.
Ve lagti mobhbbat manu khuda jaisi, na millya khuda na milli mohbbat, , mai jana ki milda na kissi nu, na millda na ishq dooja, talash ki assi umrabhar, ve changa lagya jab col khud ke Hoya
Get married
This is really sad. Altho money has nothing to do with the partner part
Take life as it comes
Ppl cannot be forced in life. If something has to happen it happens at odd places too
With me only, i was travelling to some client place whixh is located on remote area in karnataka
Had to go by train. At Hyd station, met a guy who helped me with luggage and platform etc. (i act like a headless chicken on railway stations ). He was so well spoken, good persona. We just exchanged numbers n started speaking. Later on it fell apart due to some reasons but he is a good guy at heart.
Lesson- ppl can meet anywhere